So, You Want To Get Your Girlfriend Back

So, you want to get your girlfriend back. And you are wondering how to go about doing that. You start thinking and philosophizing about everything that could have been done differently. You even begin to make plans on how to apologize. How should you do that, with a letter, flowers or buy her a gift, all in hopes of winning her back.



Back up, whole on a minute, all of those things are nice, but these things will tend to fall by the waste side for one reason above all else: because you can never really tell what the real reasons were behind your breakup. The apology, the flowers, and even the gift are all nice and you will probably give them to her, but not now, later much-later.



Women become emotional and often they don’t even understand what happen themselves,to make it all fall apart. She probably doesn’t even have a handle on why she’s feeling the way she is. So there, both of you are, in a daze not knowing which way to turn. You both need some time to gather yourselves. Since we are talking about getting your girl back let’s concentrate on that.
As I said earlier you both need to gather yourselves, which means you need to be apart from each other for awhile. You need to be working on yourself. You need to go out, meet new friends, have a little fun, network a little and forget about women and relationships in general for awhile. Set some realistic goals for yourself around expanding your repertoire when it comes to seduction and meeting people. Take a couple of months to make changes in your life. Taking time away from your ex will work wonders for you, and will allow you to put things back into balance.



The effect of going down this road verses another is that it will allow you to make gradual changes. And will allow you to see things such as the subject of your relationship in a difference light. After going through this process you may have a better idea on how to proceed with your ex, if that’s what you want to do, if not just move on. If getting back with her is the ticket, now would be the time to determine how she feels about you.



If she shows positive signs towards you then there’s your chance to be more direct. You need to play strategically, however, do not simply beg her to come back, for that will send her running. Be cool, calm, take it slow, no need to rush things here. If you have spent enough time apart she is probably missing you, just as much as you are missing her. Play hard to get, but don’t over do it, for that will frustrate her and you will be back where you started, wondering why. So there you have it, your limits, you need to be some where between begging and playing hard to get, more towards playing hard to get. That’s a big range I know, but there is a medium there somewhere, don’t worry you will find it. You need to show her that you are doing just fine in her absence. This will inspire her to really rethink things.



If getting back together with your ex is really meant to be, then it will happen. Be careful not to over analyze the situation, we are trying to put a relationship back together, not work out a science project. Just take things nice and slow and you should be fine.



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