What must; What should; What can I do to get my ex-boyfriend back?

Does it seem like everything you do pushes your ex further and further away from you? Are you asking yourself: What must; What should; or What can I do to get my ex-boyfriend back? Well here are some tips that will greatly improve your chances for getting him back.

You hunted this article down on the internet because you are serious about putting your relationship back together with that special one. And you are looking for some advice and/or tips to help you do just that. But if you are feeling overly anxious about getting him back, you may be the cause for him to be running in the opposite direction. Struggling against human nature is completely pointless, and 9 times out of 10 will make things worst.

Are you doing one or more of the following things?


Are you:

• Constantly calling him?


• Constantly emailing or texting him?


• Trying to run a guilt trip on him?

If you are doing any of the above, stop. Just stop!!


If you are asking:

• What must?


• What should?


• Or What can I do to get him back?

You need to stop chasing him now, Right Now!!!


So what should you do to get him back, I suggest following this game plan. You begin by looking at your situation in a whole difference light. This may sound and feel strange, but you are about to “Flip the Script” as we say back home, you are about to take control. First, start by breaking off all contact with him, at least for a while. Put yourself first, for a change. During this period of time there should be no contact with your ex. Let me repeat that, there should be no contact with your ex. This is the time for you to work on yourself, rather than focusing on fixing your relationship. This will not be easy; it will require discipline to prevent you from returning to your old ways.


During this time your ex will start to see a shift in your behavior, mainly he will notice that you are not chasing him. You will become mysterious to him in some ways, because he will not be sure about what you are doing, thinking or feeling. And when this happens you are starting to take back control. You are “Flipping the Script”, which will work in your favor. By “Flipping the Script” he will start to wonder what you are doing, thinking, feeling and etc... He will start to miss you, which he can’t do if you continue to chase him.


The key to this strategy and repairing a break up is to work with human nature not against it. If you are wondering:

• What must?


• What should?


• Or, What can I do to get him back?

You should have a good idea on what common mistakes to avoid. When you implement this basic strategy you can restore the balance, which will allow your ex to remember why he loved you in the first place. Just keep your head on straight and avoid smothering him. At times be mysterious, let him start to think, he will be reminded why he fell in loved with you in the first place. Play hard to get, but don’t over do it, because that will sent him running too. There is a medium there, you will find it. When you find it let him make the first move, and you will come out on top.


Then you can stop asking yourself:

• What must?


• What should?


• Or What can I do to get him back?

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